Amagambo 5 Wabwira Mama Wawe Akishima Akumva Ko Yabyaye Neza

  

 

 Amagambo 5 Wabwira Mama Wawe Akishima Akumva Ko Yabyaye Neza 

 

1. "Mama, wambereye igisobanuro cy’urukundo nyarwo."

Gusesengura: Iri jambo rivuga ko urukundo rwa mama atari urw’amagambo gusa, ahubwo ari igihamya cy’urukundo rudashira, rutavangira, kandi rudatezuka. Kubwira mama ibi ni ukumwereka ko ibyo yakoze byose, kuva akibyara kugeza n’ubu, byamubereye isomo ry’urukundo rutagira uko rungana.

Agaciro: Bituma mama yisanga mu ruhare rw’ingenzi mu buzima bwawe.
Gusekeje/kuruhura umutima: Ushobora kongeraho utuntu duto dutuma aseka, nko kumubwira uko wamukundaga igihe yagusabirizaga imbuto ku isoko.
Inyigisho: Abasomyi bamenya ko urukundo rwa mama rudakwiye gufatwa nk’igisanzwe.

2. "Iyo ndebye aho ngeze, menya ko mfite umugisha witwa wowe."

Gusesengura: Iri jambo ryerekana ko byose wagezeho, umwanya uriho, uko utekereza cyangwa witwara, byose bifite inkomoko kuri mama. Ni ukumwereka ko umubona nk’isoko y’umugisha wawe.

Agaciro: Umutima wa mama uranyurwa iyo amenya ko yagize uruhare mu ntsinzi zawe.
Entertainment: Ushobora kuvuga nk’ukuntu yagiye akubwira ngo “sigasira isaha” kandi bigatuma wubaha igihe, none bigeze aho bigutunze.
Inyigisho: Abasomyi bibutswa gushimira inkomoko y’uburere bwiza.

3. "Sinshobora kuvuga inkuru y’ubuzima bwanjye ntavuze izina ryawe."

Gusesengura: Iyi ni inkuru nziza cyane y’urukundo. Kwereka mama ko agira uruhare rudasimburwa mu buzima bwawe, kandi ko atari umuntu usigara inyuma, ahubwo ari igice cy’amateka yawe.

Agaciro: Bituma yumva ko atazibagirana, kandi ko ari igice cy’umurage wawe.
Gukora ku mutima: Bivuga ko aho uzajya hose, azaba ari kumwe nawe mu mutima n’inkuru.
Inyigisho: Abandi babyeyi n’abana basomye iyi nkuru bashobora gutekereza ku buryo bubaha inkomoko yabo.

4. "Mama, wampaye byinshi kuruta ibyo nashoboraga gusaba."

Gusesengura: Si ibintu bifatika gusa. Ni uburere, uburinzi, impanuro, impuhwe n’amasengesho. Ni ukwereka mama ko ibyo yaguhaye bifite uburemere kuruta impano cyangwa amafaranga.

Agaciro: Bituma mama yumva ko iby’imbaraga yashyize mu kurera byatanze umusaruro.
Urwenya: Ushobora gutera urwenya uti “nta bwo nigeze nsaba gufashwa kwiga guca bugufi, ariko wambyigishije nta kiguzi.”
Inyigisho: Gutanga ntibisaba kuba ufite byinshi—n’umutima utanga uburere uba ukomeye.

5. "Ukwihangana kwawe ni ko kwambereye isomo rikomeye mu buzima."

Gusesengura: Ibi byibutsa mama ko uko yihanganiye ibihe bigoye, uko yakomeje kuguhagararaho n’iyo byari bikomeye, byakubaye isomo. Si ibyo yavuze gusa, ahubwo ni ibyo yakoze byakwigishije.

Agaciro: Ababyeyi benshi baba bakeneye kumva ko imbaraga zabo zagaragaye.
Emotional: Bimukora ku mutima, cyane cyane iyo wibutsa igihe mwanyuzemo ibihe bikomeye.
Inyigisho: Ubuzima si ibyo tubwirwa gusa, ahubwo n’ibyo tubonera urugero.